- Bad boys get sex, kind boys get friends -

What the fuck, ladies? Why are you attracted to bad boys? When you go out to a party you ain't fuckin the loner in the corner. Cause you think he's submissive. But why aren't you creatures with over-advanced emotional life and oversocialized life thinking in long terms? Will that alfa male which is now bragging about his woody and how many girls he's slept with be a very good father to your eventual children? Dont think so.

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"Oh my God, Cheryl! I hear this new boy is moving to our 'hood and his rep says is such a bad boy! I'd definitely do him so hard!" If this sentence doesn't seem truly believable to you, you need to be more outgoing. Or realize that all of the "soft" boys you're rejecting as a girl that plays hard to get when you really want a girlfriend so you can be the popular in your gossip gang is throwing away a lot of good guys. That would get you experience about love, instead of just feeling love. Very sad, demotivational love which gives you a twisted image of boys and makes you to an old lady with twenty-seven cats.

And yeah. You know this so-called "players"? They ain't. While you're thinking they're only interested in you because they want sex, they're actually trying to get a girlfriend. Maybe you've heard other things from your gossip buddies, but hey - you never know about what they tell is true or not. Do you think the world has become a colder place? A little less of love? It's because of you, girls. You're creating fear. Don't ditch the guys self esteem in front of all of his and yours mates. This will cause fear of beeing rejected and the result is that he's not going to take that chance again.

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When you're beeing rejected once, it'll take a long time before you'll try again. You won't hear yer mates chattering about how desperate you are. And you would definitely not see it on your Facebook wall. That will just create bad rumors of you and that you're not the cool kid that might raise the girls status bar. Girls love guys with status, it's a shame, but it's also a primitive instinct from the time humanity was created. Like the fear of not being loved by anyone. 

The best things you can do about this as a boy is to:
1. Stay positive.

2. Let a no be a no, and find someone else. 

3. Ignore her to get her to like you. And that's serious advice.

4. Show her that you don't need any girlfriend, you friends will do. 

5. Be self-confidence.

6. Show her you're an alpha dog. (Google it if ya don't know.)

7. Get "cool, dangerous things" at your sleeping room. Just to impress her and to awake her primitive instincts saying that you're a boy that doesn't need to brag about how exiting you are.

Well, this is basically advices from "The Game" but if you gradually change your personality yer friends won't notice. And when you've lived enough according to these rules, they will fall into your life so naturally that even girls knowing about players strategics wont notice.